Good Grief
Posted: October 29, 2010 Filed under: Writing | Tags: Emotions, Grief, Passion, Writing Leave a commentGrief is one of the most intense emotions in the spectrum of human emotions. Grief has driven men to murder and suicide, out of feelings of complete and utter despair. It is also one of the most powerful motivational tools a writer can have.Grief inspires such passionate, heartfelt writing, that its sincerity cannot be doubted. Even in fictional writing, touching, emotional scenes can be created by drawing on personal grief, and injecting feelings to produce a very convincing work. After all, we draw on our own experiences in everything write, so why wouldn’t this powerful emotion that stirs anguish and passion within us, become inspiration for some of our most moving creations?
Oh, sure. Anger and love rank up there in the highly inspiring motivations, as well, but there is something about grief that just grabs a hold of a person and latches on. Grief is not easily shaken. In fact, just thinking about a time when we grieved for the loss of a loved one is enough to bring those feelings back up close to the surface in an instant, no matter how long it has been since that loss was suffered. Now, I am not suggesting that anyone go and kill off a loved one for the sake of a story, but I am saying that when you have grief, you should learn to tap into it and channel the emotion into your writing.
When my son died two years ago, it didn’t seem like I would ever be able to write again, my sorrow was so overwhelming. While making preparations for his funeral, however, the matter of his eulogy came up, and I knew that I had to write it. It wouldn’t have been right to let someone else. The eulogy that I wrote was overflowing with the essence of who my son was and my feelings of loss, now that he was gone. That was the beginning of a long list of poetry and short stories that I have since written, that all draw on my grief from that same loss, as well as a good start on a memoir about his life and how he died. That collection has turned out to be some of my most moving work.
A well written book or story that has been inspired by grief brings tears to the eyes of readers. Grief is a strong and pungent emotion; it can become almost an addiction that you can’t get away from, no matter how hard you try, because it just won’t let go of you. Many writers drink in that bitter nectar and then channel it into something beautiful; something moving; something heart stirring. Written words of sorrow and despair have the ability to reach out from the page and grab readers, catching them unaware, and arousing their own sorrows and grief within themselves. Writers have realized this since the very origins of literature, when the grief of Gilgamesh, over the death of his friend, stirs in him a fear of death and a realization that he himself will someday die, which in turn, prompts him to journey into the realm of the Gods and the underworld, searching for eternal life.
So, the next time you feel tears brimming in your eyes, after you grab a tissue, rush to your notebook or keyboard and start writing. You never know when your grief will produce a passionate, moving story that will stir reader’s emotions and rock your world when it goes viral. I know. I’m still waiting for it, too, but don’t give up hope. It could happen!
Thoughts on the Publishing Process
Posted: October 24, 2010 Filed under: Writing 1 CommentI recently learned that my agent is actively talking with an interested publisher about my Heather Hummingbird book. I realize that doesn’t guarantee that I will be published, but it thrills me just to know that someone is even considering publishing my children’s book. It’s one step closer to having it published than I’ve ever been before, the illustrations are coming along, and I am elated about the progress that has been made.
I never knew how exciting creating a book could be. It’s really quite exciting, and I behave just like a kid on Christmas, about each illustration that has been presented. I have been about as patient as a kid waiting for Christmas, too. My illustrator probably has wanted to strangle me at times, as she read my incessant e-mails, “When will you be done with the next one?”; “How is it going?”; “How long?”; “Are we there yet?”; “Are we there yet?”; “Are we there yet?”. Not only is she extremely patient and understanding, she is a talented illustrator, and each illustration that she produces makes the anticipation well worth it. Her name is Aidana WillowRaven, owner of WillowRaven Illustration and Design Plus. She is also incredibly creative in marketing, making items with her illustrations on them. She designed a mug and a magnet with the opening illustration for Heather, which can be viewed and purchased at the following websites:
http://www.zazzle.com/heather_hummingbird_flitting_from_flower_to_flower_magnet-147120592076358656
http://www.zazzle.com/heather_hummingbird_flitting_from_flower_to_flower_mug-168119809491565812
I guess all I’m really trying to say though, is that I am enjoying the ride, on this new and unexplored, (at least by me), territory that’s end result will be a published book. I am learning a lot about the publishing process. I didn’t realize how long everything takes to be completed. I didn’t realize how long it would take to illustrate a book, once it was written; or that it would probably take two years, once you have a publisher, for your work to come to completion, in the form of an actual book that people can buy. There is a lot more to it than I realized at first. I know that I will learn more as I go, and I’m looking forward to seeing this project through.
How to Make an Easy Bird Treat
Posted: October 24, 2010 Filed under: Articles Leave a commentHow to Make an Easy Bird Treat.
You’ll think twice about water after reading “Water Hazard”
Posted: October 11, 2010 Filed under: Book Review | Tags: Action, Adventure, Book Review, Tim Baker, Water Hazard 3 Comments
Water Hazard, by Tim Baker takes readers on a ride as wild as any water slide. When twelve year old Justin and his buddy heist a collection of CDs from a car parked in a construction area, they don’t realize what treacherous waters they are treading into. Included in the collection, are a pair of encrypted discs that contain valuable information about an illegal water pumping operation, that mean big bucks for the owners, and they will stop at nothing, including kidnapping and murder, to get them back. When the boys sell the CDs to a local music store, owner Steve Warwick and his friend Ike are plunged into the eddy, and they are determined to bring down the whole operation with a splash. It seems that the villains in this story have just been dog paddling, in an attempt to swim with the big sharks, and you’ll have to laugh as Steve and Ike outsmart the bad guys time and time again, as they slip and slide through all the loops, and watch the bad guys as they belly flop. Water Hazard is filled with back flips and cannon balls that will keep you guessing as to who will sink and who will swim, in this hilarious adventure of high jinks and intrigue.
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Posted: October 9, 2010 Filed under: Articles Leave a comment“Reprisal! The Eagle Rises” gives readers something to think about
Posted: October 7, 2010 Filed under: Book Review | Tags: Books, Chris Keys, Reprisal!, Review Leave a comment
Reprisal! The Eagle Rises, by Chris Keys is a thought provoking action thriller novel, as terrorist forces move to take control of the U.S. and ineffective politicians play right into their hands in a scenario that may be all too possible and too similar to reality for comfort. Keys gives readers a look at what might happen if a force with unlimited resources takes matters into their own hands and takes the action that the government either can’t or is unwilling to take. The politics of Reprisal! are eerily familiar, making one envision how easy it would be for a scenario such as this one to really happen. After reading this book you may even be just a little uneasy, for many of the circumstances reflected seem all too real. When the most recent terrorist attack kills members of General Chip Clarrett’s family, he decides to step down from his government post and climb on board Steven Howard ‘s Kilauea Corporation, and the fight becomes a personal. Can Kilauea Corporation stop the terrorist forces that are trying to infiltrate the U.S.? Can they really be more effective than government entities from around the world? Watch and see, as Kilauea forces swing into action and go after the terrorist cell that has recently wreaked havoc on their homeland. Reprisal! The Eagle Rises is action packed and filled with intrigue. Definitely a must read for action adventure fans.
NAMW offers free writing events open to the public – Colorado Springs literature | Examiner.com
Posted: October 7, 2010 Filed under: Articles Leave a commentNAMW offers free writing events open to the public – Colorado Springs literature | Examiner.com.
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Posted: October 2, 2010 Filed under: Articles Leave a commentWhere Does the Time Go?
Posted: September 30, 2010 Filed under: Writing Leave a commentWe’ve all had it happen at one time or another. You sit down to check your emails real quick, make a couple of replies, maybe respond to something that was posted on FaceBook, or one of the other social networks, before you get busy writing. Suddenly, you look up and realize that you have been sitting in front of your computer for two hours or more! You wonder how this happened. You just sat down to do a real quick check in, but now look how much time has passed; time that could have been spent writing (or doing something else productive).
This is a common occurrence at my house. Of course, the time gets away from me when I am actually writing, too. Often I will look up from whatever I am working on to realize that the rest of my household has gone to bed long ago. I vaguely remember saying good night to them. I find that I have written my way into the early morning hours without even realizing it. When I’m writing, I am lost in my own little world. When my husband calls us to supper and I respond, “Okay, just a minute.” His response is , “Are we talking about a real minute, or a computer minute?” Computer minutes stretch out to be a lot longer than real time minutes and he knows this. He knows it because of the many, many times that I have told him just a minute, and then left him waiting for hours, often until he is so frustrated that he is yelling at me to get off the damn computer, now! I look up, perplexed, because I don’t know why he is so upset. I just told him that I was coming…..uhhh….oh my, has it really been an hour?
It’s more frustrating when the activity that I’m caught up in, is something other than writing though. When I’m writing, at least I feel as if I am accomplishing something. But, I have learned that networking is important work, too. After all, how else is anyone going to even know my writing is out there? Networking is a lot more than just posting links. As a writer, you have to use social networking as a tool of your trade, for advertising your work and getting it out there for people to see, but also for making connections that will promote your career, and maybe some will even develop into genuine friendships. “What do friendships have to do with writing?” you ask. It is those friendships that cause people to care enough to want to follow the link that you posted or check out the story that you asked them to.
The real trick is, to divvy up your time, so that you can accomplish all the tasks that you need to accomplish and still have a life. Decide how much time you need to spend on networking each day, and then stick to it! Computers have clocks in the bottom right hand corner of the screen. Become a clock watcher and use it. When the time that you have allotted for networking is up, stop, and go on to the next task. Set goals for your writing, too. These can be timed goals, saying you will spend a certain number of hours writing, or they can be page or word counts that you want to meet. Whatever form they take, make sure that they are reasonable, and that they still allow time for the other things that are important in life, like family and friends. Do not set a goal for yourself of 100 pages a day, because that’s just not realistic. You won’t be able to meet it, and will just end up frustrated.
Your goals also need to be flexible, because let’s face it, things change. I have set my goals so many times, I can’t even begin to count, because my life situation had changed and the goals that I had set previously, were no longer realistic. I set new goals two weeks ago, and already events in my life have shifted, so that I need to adjust my goals accordingly once again. Don’t look at a resetting of your goals as a failure. It is just a matter of reprioritizing and knowing your limitations. When my husband was so sick, not too long ago, my priority was taking care of him, and I felt myself lucky if I got out one or two articles per day. I spent all my writing time concentrated on the articles that would actually bring in cash, because of all the time I had to miss from work. The articles and sites that I do because they grow my readership and I enjoy doing them got neglected. Fortunately, he is getting better, and I have been able to shift my priorities and get back to some of the fun stuff that makes writing my passion. Sometimes, making money has to be the priority, but if you let it overshadow everything else, you can get burnt out, even on something that you are passionate about.
So, my advice today is to set flexible goals that are realistic for your life circumstances. Allow time for writing and promotion, but be sure to set aside time for the other things that are important, and don’t let time get away from you. Know the difference between a computer minute and a real one, and keep track of the real ones to eliminate a good portion of stress from your life. No matter what, never lose sight of your writing goals and always keep your priorities straight.























